I guess my issue is that all children (even regressive one's ) lie to their parents. It's part of children's growth emotionally. I'm not saying that your therapist has responded incorrectly, it just puts up a red flag for me that she mentioned (according to your previous post) she didn't want to be your sister, mother, friend. . .. did you ask her to be those things previously? If you didn't SPECIFICALLY ask for this, than it is her projection/countertransferance. I'm not saying that isn't what you might have been thinking or indirectly saying , heck that happens in therapy, but if you don't address it directly, than your therapist needs to explore and examine this . .. doesn't sound like she's done that .. . sounds like she's gone to "interpretation" before exploration. ... just my take one things.

I sure hope things work out for you because I've read your posts for a while CC and I get the feeling that you are really trying to make some significant changes in your life. ... and you have been very trusting and connected to this therapist . .. just my view on things. Good luck on solving this tangle!