you know what I've learned over a lifetime, I'mNotReal? Most of us have done or said something that can be construed as stupid or rude. ... it's human nature! It's not about mental illness or borderlineness. .. it's about just saying or doing the wrong thing. I don't know about you, but others have said or done this to me. I can get mad or indignant ... or I can recognize that I've done the same. If the person doesn't see that, then they aren't worth the effor to apologize. Take care!