There is the possibility that you and she are not a "good fit". I guess I am reminded of my own experience with a standoffish therapist years ago. I struggled with constant ruptures and wondered what was wrong with ME. I had a psych consult and the 3rd party therapist actually advised that I seek a "warmer and fuzzier" therapist!

I'm glad that I did! It doesn't keep you from T ruptures but it helps overall, a general sense of well being and being cared for. Just something to consider.