I don't know your age, but therapists are not supposed to diagnose for BPD until 18 or later (BPD reads like a description of your normal teenager)

Also, when I was young I was slapped w/the BPD label while in the hospital. My T said that BPD is the label you are given when your treatment team does not like you. He meant that it is a vague and practically bogus catch-all diagnosis.