Hi cantexplain,

Thanks for your response - sorry its taken me so long to reply. Ive done a lot of thinking as of late and ive accepted that i am bisexual. Im not however going to pressurize myself to come out just yet or explore the issue further. Im happy just to have accepted myself for who i am. Ive never heard of a contingency plan before - i guess it would be an interesting thing to try, i wish i saw your reply a lot earlier than i did! Thanks all the same, its good to know someone cares!