i'm sorry you felt hurt.

if your concern for your health is considered an "unhealthy" concern (you are stuck in worry, not able to be productive in recovery), then what your therapist said to you might of be accurrate, huh? she was probably challenging you to step out of your comfort zone, risk change. i doubt she meant to hurt your feelings. usually, a therapist will only make smart-*** statements to a patient if the conselor believes the patient will benefit from hearing such a statement. consider asking her next session how that comment is supposed to help you.