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Originally Posted by earthmamma
I think if things have happened as you say here then your T is an insult to "the couch". There is nothing theraputic in the angry outburst you say she had. I've been with my T for a few yrs and have never been treated with anything but total positive regard. You do have the choice to find someone else. Or are you stuck in a dysfunctional relationship because you don't recognise it as such?
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It happened as I said... I called T after hours ( 5 or 6 times in 6 months) and I've emailed about 40 until she said no emails ... but T said it was too much. Dysfunctional relationship , hmmm , those r the kind I am accustomed to , you may b right. Since there is no instructions on how it works , how was I supposed to know ? I can't call T or email anymore , appointments face to face only. I think I th ought it would b more warm and fuzzy like many people have with their T but maybe that's NOT what I need? Is this tough love? I told T I wanted to run out of her office when she asked why I was crying, she said I could. But I dont want to run, I need to get over this mommy thing, she's the professional maybe this is part of a larger plan on her part? Thanks earthmamma