Not sure if this is the right place to put this... But why do i associate S+x with Relationships? I've had multiple of one nighters and FWB and nothing happened after but i always had this feeling that even i slept with them they would like me more and we would be in a relationship. I long so much for a relationship that has meaning... And never seem to get it... I wonder if its because I give in or because of the BPD.. because i get a bit obsessive?