BB2023.. I dont have the time between working 9 hours a day and having two kids on my own to go to a pysc to get referred to the DBT then to go to the DBT program so I sorta know how it feels but then again i am kinda doing it myself... But i've been reading books on BPD I found this website, and I got hobbies. I started scrapbooking and reading regular books. And im on Paxil and Divalproex. Which i recomend dearly!! Drugs are an amazing uplifter!