I think that people who are in therapy have heard this so many times (from ourselves and other people) that this conversation just isn't all that interesting any more. It's like people who want to start a big debate with me because I'm a vegetarian. I've been one for so long, that I don't even want to discuss it and I certainly don't want to fight about it. We've been through this conversation before and we know where we stand on it. T is one thing and friends are another. That's that.