Hi Kitten, Infatuation is so strong at times; it is hard to walk away. I've done it, walked away, when my heart said "no,no. He was on my mind very much of the time. I had a good solid, long time husband. Sometimes I think the doldrums of marriage catch up with us and the attraction and obsessiveness is also a reminder of how we felt about our first love...our husband. Remember this; no matter who you are with the doldrums will always visit again. Please don't take this chance...it's hard to not want the excitement of infatuation, the unknown....but plenty of people can get hurt with this and in your heart of hearts, you know this. Hug, bj