Are you reading too fast? I am not saying that snidely. How do you not see how that that disclosure is not "for" the good of the client? Why would it be for your good? A disclosure isn't benign, she's saying it has to be a definitive positive.

And I would "challenge" you on "challenging" her. Would you say you deliberately challenged her at the time, or were you just taking poetic license in describing the scene for us here? If not poetic license, then why the challenge? ie what's that all about? what is the need to challenge about? that would have to be answered before I ever satisfied your curiosity about my marital status, were I your T (afraid there is no smilie for 'cold day in hell!') (hey, who said that, me or you?!)