Yabbut the need of one (time) is "sacrificed" for the greater good - it's a judgment call, and THEY feel they're entitled to make it, I guess cuz they're licensed and getting paid and we came to them for advice, not vice versa? I know, the nerve of some people! Remember, my T told me he knows how to do his job?! That's why my criteria for picking this T, somebody huggable, like Dr Sweets on Bones - so I don't want to hurt him too much when he has to do carp like this. Hmm - there IS that question of who is going to survive, like the two rams in Wild Kingdom, or Hamlet; can mummy "survive" our anger and needs etc... thanks btw! and back atcha!