I often feel that men, especially my age, are really hard to understand. They seem often times like a different species. I find it most difficult to respect most of them. I'm not gay or anything like that; but they talk a complete different language, and emotionally kinda blah. I had not dated for a long time until recently. I find them kinda manipulating and some quite controlling in a mind play kinda way. My not having much respect bothers me to some degree cuz I was married for many years and I did respect my husband for the most part. Does anyone know what I mean? Hugs, bj