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Originally Posted by rainbow8
I seem to need so much validation for my feelings about my session. I can't just tell myself "it was great" and be glad. I have to hear it from others, and that is frustrating because it's never enough.
I have to work on this problem more in therapy. I have what seems like an insatiable need to be praised because I don't value my self.
It's really about validating myself and knowing that I'm valuable and not needing everyone to tell me.
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This is ME! Yes, it is really what I do. I can't tell myself,
"Hey you did a great job on this or that!" Part of me may feel great that I was a success, but there is also that part that keeps yelling,
"You made a fool of yourself. Nobody likes you. You can't do anything right."
I admire your courage to be so honest in here. It takes a lot of courage to say what you said in this thread.