It reads to me like your T is really a caring individual. It was a question, the way you wrote it as said, not a celebration. What good would a therapist be if they didn't ask us questions so we could work through issues? Don't we go to therapy for an objective viewpoint outside of ourselves? Of course, I do! If I were thinking correctly all the time, I wouldn't need therapy. I surmise you might feel the same way.

Please don't give up on yourself so easily. Therapy is hard work. Discussing a misunderstanding is a good therapy issue, as you have an opportunity to learn and discuss it. IRL you might just go your way and not realize you misunderstood. TC