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Old May 11, 2006, 02:44 AM
Jenn1fer82 Jenn1fer82 is offline
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I made a personal choice to absolutely not date anyone for a whole year. I've kept my own promise for myself and now I'm interested to meet new people. I found that a close friend of mine, is being resistant to me wanting to date again. She shows no interest to hear me tell her about the new friends I've met. It's been so obvious that she's given me the impression that she wouldn't even want me to hang out her circle of friends because in that circle of friends, theres a person who has shown some interest in wanting to get to know me. I feel that because of the year I spent being absolutely single, I spent that time with my friends and she's having a hard time of me having a seprate life. I feel that my close friend will have a hard time having to share my time with someone else. It is not as though I'm planning on gettting married in the next month or if I'm having to choose a relationship over a friendship. I feel as though she's not willing to share me with anyone else but to keep me to herself. I don't understand where she is coming from and its so hard for me to be understanding when I feel she's only looking out for her own best interest. How must I deal with this? I'm not even in a serious relationship just yet. I'm simply only testing the water and getting to know people through converstations.