IMO there has to be some kind of a connection so that therapy and all "works." Admiration is quite acceptable. If you find your thoughts moving into a more sexual realm, then it might be a good thing to discuss with the T. Attachment ...well... yes it happens. T's can use it to the benefit of the patient, as in modeling and example of good behavior. Many ppl who are in therapy don't really know what good, safe, caring feelings "feel" like, I think. TC