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Originally Posted by RaggedyAnn67
Oh, but they do have ulterior motives. All of them...everyone of them.
I still think that way. 
Experience has taught me that there are ulterior motives. Be on the look out for it...cause it's there. I live a vigilant life looking for that motive. I even argued this 'fact' with a psychiatrist once knowing that I was right.
I do not know how to stop thinking this way at all. I think it keeps me safe. |
Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. But they are never hurtful to others. But for some reason I expect others to have ulterior motives that will destroy me. Just my experience in life. I've met some very happy, trusting folks. I think they can trust because if somebody does show their true colours, they protect themselves and say 'so long buddy'. For me, I'll continue to perform the function of punching bag. I don't protect my boundaries and once I see what's going on, it's too late. So therefore, I can't trust anybody.