i do not know what to say....understand too too too well. Happy darkpurplesecrets has managed to grow strong and survive...relatively okay. Sure there are still problems but ...i hope problems that are more manageable. i coped in a different way...not such a good way...and there was cutting...still have scars on the arms...but knowing that there is one person or a group of people that you can (excuse this expression: Vomit ) all of the toxic pain and frustration onto and receive understanding and a calming salve to help you continue...meaning the website.
Welcome to Psych Central. i hope you will find the help you need to rise above all of that mess and rescue your brother too. Besides...do not leave your brother all alone to cope. Even if he has never said so he too is holding on by threads and you are one of the threads. Without you....well let's not think of that. Instead try to learn some coping skills from those of us who really can relate.
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