Yes I am a JAFA but i've recently defected to the Mainland, Chrischurch to be exact lol! So whereabouts are you? Wow, cool to meet another kiwi on here, that's makes three of us i know so far!

the meeting did go better an i expected even though we didn't see eye-to-eye on a few things ( i am a semi-slob living in a flat of neat freaks!!!), but i guess all bad vibes are out in the open now, so ppl have whatever off there chest. i was a bit stressed about it today, actually ended up self-harming for the first time in a couple of months, which was dissappointing but it was only a couple of scratches along my arm and i didn't get a huge rush out of it or sit there starring at the mark in fascination, so i guess that could be a positive thing, and i did do really wel to go two months as two weeks used to be a big thing for me!