our posts must've crossed! I live in In'gill now, but my father was born in Chch- Leeston to be precise!. I know of Sezzie, you, me, and Drunksunflower (but she's not around for now). So there are a few of us...

But anyway, great to hear that things weren't too bad, and I can sympathise with living with a neat freak when you yourself are not quite that way inclined!! I LIKE things to be neat, orderly, tidy, clean but motivation (or lack of) + upbringing (I cringe everytime I walk into my parents house there is so much dust) + kids all factor into the equation. But I'm off now to do some tidying up- my ex will be here 2moro nite to babysit and I DO not need any more critisism than is necessary lol. Take care, and well done on going for 2mths with no self harm. I'm celebrating 1week 2days