lol...yeah, i think they did cross! anyway i'm feeling a bit more relaxed about being here now, i guess i tend to get a bit sensitive to criticism and me and her both just need to learn to live with a bit of difference, after all it would be a boring world if everyone was the same ( as my grandma used to say!). Well done on 1week 2 days with no self-harm, i know it can be tough (as i guess i demonstrated today!), but i am just going to consider this a fleeting relapse...kinda like the ex-smoker who takes a puff of a cigarette and stubs it straight out in horror, just to do a little analogy...so hang in there!