Yes I would suggest that you talk this through with her.

She shouldn't be telling you how to live your life, but I know I have an on-going issue with my ex husband still coming to my house and dominating me and T dops hints that maybe this is not the best siuituation for me to be continuing in.

But if you talk to T you may understand what she meant, but you will also be able to clarify your views with T, that you do not want to leave your husband.

SD