what a great threadif i focus on what i see as my T's weaknesses i will tend to tear her apart in my mind and i am trying really hard to get out of this space right now so i hope it is OK if i use this thread as a place to put some of the strengths my T has.

she is very strong and grounded(emotionally and all)
she listens when i can share with her.
she is willing to try different things
she is patient yet encouraging

things i wish i could feel about her

i wish i could feel that she cares about me
i wish i could feel the empathy she must have
i wish i could feel i could trust her
but i'm working on all this it has just been a very bad week