Sometimes people LOVE the chase much more than an actual relationship. The romance of the forbidden fruit is extremely seductive. Sounds like this guy is maintaining the emotional honeymoon phase for you, with little regard to your feelings of attachment. Not good. Be good to yourself and cut him off. Focus on your own marriage, as the other posters have suggested, work with your hubby to reawaken the “spark”. Therapy may be a good place to relaunch your romance campaign
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