My T doesn't tell me anything, even when appointments get moved I don't find out why. It's really hard to open up to a total stranger when you have trust issues to start with! I don't expect her to tell me everything but just so I know she's human and exists outside her job. I'm scared of asking in case she rejects me or it's a boundary or it makes her angry. I think it's natural to be curious about someone though, especially when they question and want to know so much about us