My boyfriend has recently been diagnosed with borderline personality. I've looked it up and read all about it and how he feels and thinks. He has told me about how he feels but has never had an explanation behind it. Knowing more about it and knowing how it can affect relationships I'd like some advice from others dealing with this. We do have a very good relationship and no matter how bad his moods get i'd never consider leaving him, but I think I do need help knowing how to help him with this and need a better understanding of it.
I also find it difficult to deal with as from reading about the condition there are times where he could find me unbearable to be with. This panic's me, and I know I shouldn't take it personally, but having anxiety issues and being a "people pleaser" i'm terrified of these rejected feelings he could have towards me. I would really appreciate some advice, thanks all.