This conversation has come up a few times over the years with my T. I've always seen it as a way to allow me to express my feelings about this if I need to. My T has several times very clearly stated that he does not ever advocate for divorce; it is a clear boundary of his. Basically he means it is not his job or his right to recommend divorce. I didn't gather from what you wrote that your T was at all advocating that you divorce your husband. She was feeling you out for your ideas on this and allowing an opening for such conversations.