By the way, therapeutic neutrality is a myth.

Try telling T, "I grew up in a neighbourhood where CSA was the norm."

T is not going to be neutral about that, and quite right too!

T told me once, "I approve of your sexuality." I'm very grateful for that affirmation, but it's dead against the rules. Isn't it?

I sometims think the only time Ts do any real good is when they break their own rules.