So I had a revilation after this post. My house is always a mess. I've been cleaning like a mad woman since someone posted about being comfortable in the choas....light bulb moment for me. Cause I really do hate it. I like everything to be perfect. But it's choas for everyone...so now...I've found something to work on. Wow....now to read everyones posts!! Thanks for this one!! It clicked...It's a choice. Click click!!