Well, if they are my dogs, yeah, let's wake them up. If they are his? Not so much. His dogs just shouldn't become my problem.

My therapist is much more interested in what I think I know about him, or how I feel towards him in a given moment.

It's not that I don't understand about wanting to know about your therapist. I do. It's wasn't a huge issue for me, but I do know all about face planting in the therapeutic boundaries set by the therapist.

What concerns me I guess about your situation is the power struggle that has developed over this information. What would happen if you "won"?

It certainly seems to me that you are at a stalemate here and very very angry over a lot of things with your therapist.

Maybe you need to be that way right now, but how do you see this resolving into something more beneficial for you?