Hmm. Now I want to ask my T what his weaknesses are. But that would be hostile and hurt his feelings. I am having a bad few weeks and I do know why, birthdays and national holidays - I am afraid my mother will attack me, is what I said to myself this morning. I was surprised by my use of the word "attack" - wth does that mean? My hostility seems to be a preemptive strike - like a baby velociraptor flexing her necklace thingie.