I googled the opposite of that. and that actually took me to psych links forum. While there, I got lectured by one of the moderators because someone said their mother was a narcassist and in my response, I referred to the mom as a narcassist. I was lectured about not diagnosing people. ? Some one else on that forum mentioned this one, so I started lurking over here. I didn't join for a long time because of the psych links experience.