Ya....don't let him trigger ya. It'll be up to him...and judging by the fact that he called her lazy....tells me...RUN!! You can be pretty much cured of BPD, but you can't cure BP so...if he's an 'expert' on bipolar..you just need to RUN! Cause he had no sympathy for her, and he was clearly not stable enough for her to lean on...if he's 'tired' of it...he's gonna have less sympathy for you. In my opinion...RUN!! And like Cbox said...keep your self respect. It's okay to run from an insensitive a s s !!! You'll be doing yourself a favor!!