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Originally Posted by athena2011
I was 9. After that, there was no piano, nothing we shared. No connection whatsoever.
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She's the adult, and parent. Ultimately, it's her responsibilityto nurture the child.
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I don't know who she is, after 49 years. We hardly ever spoke. She didn't 'get' me.
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Lack of communication...
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I was the only one in her life that she completely ignored. Something went wrong somewhere along the line. She went dead to me. I alone experienced this.
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You wrote SHE ignored you.. Not you ignored her.. SHE's the parent, I'm confused what a 9 year old is suppose to do when they don't have the emotional development. She went dead because of her failure in parenting. Something did happen, but ultimately her lack of parenting.. The adult is the parent, not the child..
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Perhaps it is as my T said - I didn't give her what she needed. She craved something too. I was the only one who couldn't provide. The music stopped...
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Your therapist needs to find a new job.. Have him explain why a 9 year old is suppose parent and how a child is suppose to take care of an adult..