There are a few threads on here about closure and it is something that I have been thinking about. Not an immient closure, but just the knowledge that oneday there will be closure with T.

I feel I am on the brink of moving forward in my relationship with T, to let down those last barriers and really trust T and open up..........but I know at the moment I could still pull back and walk away without it feeling like a bereavement / loss.

So I guess I was just looking for reassurance from those who have gone through a closure with their T, that despite any possible resulting pain, it was totally worth it.

I would be really interested to hear what the process of closure was also - how long it took, who decided it was time etc.

Thank-you - Soup