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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge
Thank you for this thread, I really needed to see it.
LMW and Bluemountains - and others who send/show T journal entries written while one is triggered or processing emotions -
about not editing.......... what if the reaction you are going through at the moment, and journaling about, is intense negativity toward the T? Isn't this a danger that the T relationship will be adversely impacted (perhaps permanently)?
IMO, client feelings of hostility are all part of the scene (like transference feelings, not "real" in the usual sense), but Ts are people too, and I fear ... not being honest, but being THAT honest. what do you think?
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There are times I flipped out and told him how much I hated him for no good reason other than I was triggered. The best example was when I saw him on tv with another client. Talk about angry and irrational.
He has NEVER held any of my emails against me. That doesn't stop me from apologizing like crazy when ive calmed down. I always get the "no worries, I understand" email after
