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Originally Posted by just_some_girl
Have you explained this to your T, that you're having difficulty feeling a connection? Maybe there's something she can suggest or maybe there's a way you can work on it... IDK maybe she's not the ideal T for you, but I'd definitely discuss it with her, it could be important and maybe it could lead to progress 
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We have discussed it many times. What it comes down to every time is I gotta work it out for myself. I can see why she'd say that, because they say things you learn for yourself are things you keep with you, sort of (not sure how to explain that). Its tough though! Because its a bit like aliens - you can't see them, you can't detect them with any of your 5 senses, but people keep talking about them and how they are so cool, and how you should love them too! Ok bad example, lol. I tried to get a few hints out of her but she is a tough cookie hehe, no luck