I have also had tantrums in the office. I think I'd have been better off having them on paper because T would have been better able to understand what I was thinking. Instead I just flailed around angry and he misinterpreted what was going through my head.

Actually, now that I think about it, I have had tantrums in emails too. When I told him I was really embarrased, T told me the therapist part of him was glad he was able to see what was going on with me. (I'd imagine the human part of him was thinking "dude, what a psycho!" )