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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge
same here; I keep reading that every T is well trained to weather storms from clients, on the contrary really wants to see you reacting in the moment, but in fact every time I went ballistic in her office, I could see in her face that she was not taking it calmly. It seemed to damp her confidence more & more, and in the end she said she couldn't help me any more.
I'm not sure that the paper "tantrum" is any better, if it's given to T where he/she can read & re-read it;
maybe better to go in with it,
preface it with 98574637485 apologies & caveats,
read it out just once,
and then chew it up and swallow it.
sound like a plan?
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Hm ..this has got me a bit paranoid now. I send my T a million triggered emails, and I know he reads them, cause he responds or brings whats in them up in session BUT, I never stoped to think what he does to the email after he initially reads it.
Does he re-read it? Does he delete them? Does he save them? Does he print them and put them in my file? OMG
