I have a higher sex drive than my husband, so I have decided that it is not so bad to take the initiative and seduce him. In his case he cannot help himself. A lot of men apparently are like that. If you use a little tact and patience they come around and give you what you want even it they are not inclined at first. I agree with the post above, make sure he knows when you are in the mood and it may be a lot easier to try to increase his drive rather than try to curb your own.