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Originally Posted by WeepingWillow23
Yeah I blame myself a lot too. One day I'd love to get married and have kids, but I know I have so much work to do before I'll be able to have a romantic relationship...and even then I'm not sure I should have kids - I think I'd just mess them up even worse than I am  |
Don't wait too long! We have only one child because we "waited until we were ready".
Nothing can prepare you for parenthood. You just have to hold your nose, jump in, and hope for the best. Just like you did with therapy.
Like you, I wanted to spare my children what happened to me. And although I am still not entirely "right in the head", I believe I have succeeded.
