Hi purpleheart,

I recently have come out as bisexual after knowing deep down for the last couple of years that this was my true sexuality. I know it can be tough when we're attracted to both sexes to feel satisfied when we're with a partner who is either a man or woman. Is it possible you could explain your feelings to your partner and see if they are able to satisfy you in a different way when your particularly feeling like you'd rather be with a member of the opposite sex? I know it sounds obvious but there are sexual acts that can be performed by both men and women so why not see if shaking up things in the bedroom helps in any way to ease the frustration - i think you'll be suprised by how well this can actually work. Other than that, you might want to try improving your self-sex life and invest in better toys/aids which may not be as good as the real thing but should hopefully help you deal with your urges.

Im sorry if i haven't been particularly helpful, but when it comes down to it, people who are in a relationship with a bisexual person should hopefully be understanding enough to help them out when it comes to sexual fulfillment - otherwise im not sure how well the relationship would work out long term.

Of course the only other option is, if you feel you wanted too, you could try and find someone whom is happy for you to have sexual relations on the side with other people. In my experience though this can get messy and can cause a lot of hurt on both sides especially as peoples feelings eventually get in the way of things.

Whatever happens, i hope you eventually feel something resembling satisfaction in your relationship/sex life and remember theres always PC if you need to come vent or want advice. PM me any time you need to chat. Good luck.