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Originally Posted by Purple Heart
HI bb2023
I'm bisexual too but my wife (now ex) had a negative reaction to that and she says she can't forgive me as she wanted me to tell her at the beginning of the relationship not before we got married. It's a double edge swords - damn if you do, damn if you don't. If I told her at the beggining she may have rejected me, it's not good to tell all your secrets at the beginning of a relationship. Are you married? If so would your husband let you meet up with a woman? Or are you single and enjoying both sexes at different times?
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Hi Purpleheart,
Im single at the moment, ive just come out of a long relationship which ended because i told my bf i was possibly bisexual (this was before i came out) and having sexual urges towards women. He basically hit the roof and said he wasn't prepared to date someone who couldn't make a choice between either sex - i tried explaining it wasn't a choice and that i was with him because i loved him and was just experiencing urges (i didn't even have a desire to cheat or anything) and sadly after some pretty heated arguments it all came to an end.
Since then ive found that im more interested in women. I don't know if this is a reaction to what happened or if its just how it is right now but ive seen a few people since i split from my ex and to be honest i think im more interested in the sex right now than a relationship. Im just enjoying being young and exploring my new found acceptance. Im sorry to hear what happened with your wife, but i know completely where your coming from as the same thing happened to me - i agree its difficult to know when to tell people and to anticipate how their going to react. Im not sure how my family are going to take it, quite a few people on my dads side of the family are gay so i think they'd be ok with it but my mum and her mum etc are quite conservative so im a little unsure as to what to do to be honest. Anyway - thanks for your response, its nice to hear from other bisexual individuals.