apologies for getting the posters crossed up ... the yes or no question that can't be answered yes or no is a very convoluted self-condemning no win kind of a question, and if T didn't answer it I don't blame him

Rainbow - and this truly is to you - about this >> I think I learned that when I have something to say, SAY it no matter how stupid I think it is!! Otherwise, I will be miserable when I leave
that is a brave, hard lesson, I wish I could say I had learned it. I think you've done very well there.