bb2023, I've never posted in this forum, but your post really interested me. My nephew is gay. He has not come out to anyone, and my sister is totally convinced he just hasn't found the right girl yet. However, I have suspected since he was little that he's gay, and now that he has moved to another state, I'm convinced that he's gay. We're friends on facebook, and I've seen the photos he's posting, and he changed his avatar to a really feminized version of himself (he's really GORGEOUS and hot, BTW). My sister saw his avatar and hit the roof and badgered him until he changed it. Even though she is also friends with him on facebook, she still cannot see the writing on the wall.

The point of this huge long post (and I do have one ), is that many people already know about your sexuality and are just waiting for you to tell them. I will on occasion drop hints to my nephew that I do not judge anyone ever for their sexuality. However, it seems like it would be disrespectful to just announce, "hey, I know you're gay and I'm cool with it." So, pick the people who have dropped those hints and tell them first, so you have some support when you finally get around to telling the people like my sister. Good luck!