My kids are cool and summeryoga - thank you for your responses. I think my mum might suspect im gay - she used my PC once and saw my screensaver of angelina jolie scantily clad (!) and that raised a few eyebrows lol that and apparently i keep looking at girls when we're out - this was her observation although i think shes just saying anything to edge it out of me.
Never knew you were bi summeryoga - nice to know we have something else in common, its nice to know i can count on your support, lots of hugs my lovely