Thank you! I left my T a message and asked her to call back and leave me a message that she wasn't upset by what I emailed (if I didn't answer). So she did! I'm glad I had my phone turned off so I can listen to the message over and over. She said that no way was she upset at all by what I wrote and we will continue to be curious about it and work on these things. Not her exact words; that's why I'm glad it's on my voice mail. I forget easily. She wished me a good week and said she'll see me on Tuesday. I listened a zillion more times! She said she was "totally not upset at all" and "please don't worry about it".

That message made me feel so much better. I knew she wouldn't be upset. I just felt like I needed her to tell me. She didn't sound annoyed that I called her, either. Not that I expected her to be, but I've been emailing a lot lately, and calling more than I used to, which still isn't very often. I think I've called her 3 or 4 times in 2 years.