Sky,

the hidden forum idea doesn't allow everyone in. so it's not what I would want. I've been told by another member that they will not join and it does exclude people - people who support in the best way possible - with their loving thoughts and concerns and time and effort into replying to someone in need.

That's a problem I know I have (not speaking for anyone else) that feeling of being left out of the human race all of my life because of the abuse.

I have found much love and support here and feel that this new privte forum is saying I'm not good enough.

Songbird